•Shattering The Lies•
Painted glass to be written on & shattered. Only to be glued together again to make something beautiful.
Here is an outlook of what we did at our event.
We are told many, many lies daily by ourselves and by others.
Grief is a shattering process. It’s life altering and debilitating.
Lies are a common part of life: they creep in at our weakest moments and blind us with torture and hurt.
Throughout This Grief Process: How many lies have you believed?
•Examples Of Lies From Within Yourself:
I’m a burden to others, I can’t do this, I deserve this suffering,
I’m a bad mom. I’m a bad dad.
I need to distance myself from my spouse.
I “Should have”......... I “could have”..........
What lies do you tell yourself?
What lies have you been told by others?
(You can’t be mad at God, you have little faith,
You need to grieve alone, you shouldn’t be sad,
You should be content with the children you do have,
You need to be thankful for what you do have)
It’s not fair. It’s not okay.
These lies, whatever they are, need to be destroyed because in all honesty they hinder us from becoming our best person. They hinder our growth. They hinder our grief. Let’s shatter these lies and put the pieces back together to make something beautiful.
YOU ARE A GOOD MOTHER.
YOU ARE A GOOD FATHER.
YOU DID EVERYTHING THAT YOU COULD.
YOU LOVE YOUR CHILD.
YOU DO NOT DESERVE THIS.
YOU WERE NOT BUILT TO LIVE IN THIS AGONY FOREVER.
YOU ARE LOVE.